I have been through Knoxville on the interstate many times; however, I have only stayed in Knoxville on three occasions, that I can remember. When I was young, we went to the 1982 World's Fair. Some of the happiest memories of my young life are of that trip. The World's Fair was very exciting! I rode a huge Ferris wheel that was 5 stories tall and was right beside the river. When you looked down, it looked like the only thing below you was water. I also got to see the "House of the Future", the "Car of the Future" and I ate Dippin' Dots for the first time. That trip was when I fell in love with learning about other cultures. I remember going through different exhibits about people from China, Japan, Canada, Germany, etc. that showed how people in those countries dressed, what they ate, what they drove, etc., etc., etc. Ever since then, I have loved to get to know people who are different from me. I learn so much more from someone different than from someone who is the same. I think that should be one of the "habits of lifelong learners", to get to know people who are different from you and learn from their experiences. Oh, also on that first trip to Knoxville, in 1982, we got to meet Patrick Duffey, the man who played Bobby Ewing on Dallas. Obviously my first trip to Knoxville was wunderbar; however, my second trip was one of the worst experiences of my life. Have you ever seen that show, One Bad Trip, on MTV? This was "one bad trip." I went with three of my friends. One of my friends played in an Air Force National Guard band and we went there to hear her band play. We were staying with one of her National Guard friends at a house in a quaint, little subdivision. The only people we saw on the streets all weekend were little, old, blue-haired ladies walking their dogs and the occasional mom pushing a stroller. Well, we got in from the band concert about 3 in the morning and we were planning on getting up at 5 so we could go through Gatlinburg before heading back the next day. I had just gotten out of the shower when one of my friends came in and said we've been robbed. Someone busted the window out of your car and took all of our stuff. Since we are always playing jokes on each other, I started to laugh and told her it was way too early in the morning for that to be funny. She said she wasn't kidding and wanted me to put on my shoes and come with her to look. I went out in high heeled dress shoes and my hair wrapped in a towel. As soon as she opened the front door of the house, I could see the big, gaping hole in my back window. I freaked out! To make a long story short, we called the police and when they got there they yelled at me. Can you believe that? THEY YELLED AT ME! They told me I was young but it was good that this happened to me because it taught me a valuable lesson: don't leave valuables in your car. So, all in all, that trip cost me about $2000. I had to pay a deductible to get my window fixed and I lost over a thousand dollars worth of camera equipment. In the days that followed, the police did find the guys that broke in but the only item they recovered was one of my friend's mom's video cameras. They would not let my friend, who went up there once a month for National Guard duty anyway, pick up the camera. I had to drive for endless hours to go back to Knoxville and pick it up because it was my car. When the camera was returned, the tape was still in the video camera. The thieves had recorded themselves. They were trying to figure out how to work the camera and you see a panorama of this teenager’s room. One of the guys was saying, "We have to clean this up before your mom gets home or we are in big trouble." To which I wanted to say, "You are going to be in big trouble for breaking into my car you little punk." But, of course, he wasn't in big trouble. Nothing happened to them because it was their first offense. If they knew how to cut the alarm system on my car, which they did before breaking out my window, do you really think it was their first offense? This is where I should insert another habit that should be included in the “habits of lifelong learners.” Always use bad experiences as learning experiences. Bad things are going to happen so you might as well get something from them (a.k.a. learn something). Anyway, my third trip to Knoxville was very uneventful but it kind of scares me to be there very long. I think this is because it is the only place I have ever been robbed. Once you lose that feeling of safety, you never get it back or at least I haven't. Talk to you next blog.